Today I have decided to make sure that I give at least one compliment to someone everyday. You just never know how much it can brighten up someone's day.
I personally believe it can really make a difference in someone's day, because each time someone gives me a compliment it really makes me happy.
For example, today is one of many days that I have been coming down hard on myself about my looks. I don't know why...ultimately I know that I'm not ugly . However sometimes I don't think I'm pretty enough. Normally the girls that get all of the attention have flawless makeup ...nails done...hair always well groomed ...and great bodies. As for me I am totally opposite. Even though I must admit I have been doing extremely better with my hair. THANK GOD FOR YOUTUBE!!! Lol. Now my biggest issue is my weight and simply not feeling girly enough. I wanna be the girl that keeps her nails done and eyebrows plucked, with the best of the best makeup. However being the broke college student I am ...that is most definitely on the back burner.
So with all these expectations I have for myself, sometimes I forget about the natural beauty that I already have. And honestly I think a lot of people can relate , because we are our own worse critics. So sometimes it's great to have someone compliment you ...And help you remember how beautiful you really are.
I'm currently at my job right now and I was waiting on two gentlemen. We were talking about YouTube and how it teaches you how to do anything. I began to talk about how I wanted to get into make-up.(I didn't have any makeup on btw). The two guys looked at me and both said...you are lucky to have a nice natural beauty, and that I didn't need make up at all. And when they were leaving they told me to stay beautiful and have a nice day .
I honestly don't think they know how much that made my day. It's not that I need to be accepted by anybody, but it is really nice to know when your beauty is noticed. Everyone needs that kick of self esteem every now again.
So I made this long post just to say....BE KIND! If you are thinking of something nice about someone , make sure you say it. It could possibly make there day.